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We need to talk about Your Attention Span

RDRajashri Das
Nov-07-2025
We need to talk about Your Attention Span

Academic Domination Arc. Is it finally beginning for you?
The very idea of it sounds grand and magnificent. It sounds powerful. It sounds like the kind of phrase you would whisper to yourself while staring into the mirror with serious eyes, a determined smirk, and a slightly (obviously not) overdramatic soundtrack playing in your mind.

We have all lived this moment. In fact, we have lived it repeatedly.

You wake up one day and declare that today is the beginning, and you believe no one can actually stop you from getting what you want. Today marks the start of your academic domination. You sit up like a protagonist who has finally understood their destiny. The sun feels brighter. The books look more meaningful than they have in months. Your study table suddenly appears like the command centre of an empire, and your chair is like a throne waiting for its ruler to take charge and save the kingdom. You decide that nothing can break your focus now. Not a distraction. Not laziness. Not even your phone. This is it. You are ready for your Academic Domination Arc.

You clean the table with a sense of ceremony. You stack the textbooks in neat, noble piles. You sharpen your pencils as if preparing your weapons. You open the first chapter with deep respect and renewed commitment to your future self.

For the first few minutes, everything is perfect. The mind is steady. The motivation is pure. The story is beautiful. But what exactly is a story without a plot hole?

Then a small, gentle thought knocks on the door. What if I just check my phone once?

Oh no. The arc collapses. The empire fades. The cinematic scene dissolves into everyday reality.

The comeback was real. The intention was pure. But the attention did not stay long enough to support it.


This Is Not Your Fault

The feelings were real, the motivation was real, the determination was through the roof. So why did the Academic Domination Arc collapse so quickly?

In a world where the idea of transforming the self is glorified, the brain loves the idea of transformation more than the actual work of transformation. The idea of a new you is enticing on many levels.

Just thinking about studying feels clean, powerful, cinematic. Studying itself is slower. It is quiet. It asks for patience. It has no soundtrack. It does not immediately reward you.

The modern world does not train us for patience. It trains us for stimulation. Our attention gets pulled in every direction. Every app on the phone is designed to keep the mind busy but not focused. The brain becomes habituated to these fast changes and instant results. The brain gets stimulated through multitasking and hence, we try to focus on too many things at once. But if we dig deeper, we realize that we are not multitasking to save time. We are doing it because it has become extremely difficult for us to set our mind to only one thing and commit to it. And evidently, when we try to sit still with one task, especially a demanding one, the mind begins to resist.

This resistance is not equivalent to failure. This resistance is biology.

Motivation is the opening scene. The dramatic music rises, the spotlight hits your face, everything feels powerful and possible. It is the hero moment. But attention is the cameraman. The cameraman is the one who has to stay steady for the entire film. If the cameraman gets distracted, the whole movie turns blurry, the scene shakes, and the heroic moment loses its meaning.

So when your Academic Domination Arc collapses, it is not because the hero is weak. It is simply because the cameraman got tired. And the cameraman is only human.

So the problem is not that students are lazy or careless. The problem is that the world is louder than it used to be. It is overwhelming. And the mind has learned to move quickly, not deeply.

Your Academic Domination Arc does not fall apart because you lack discipline. It falls apart because your attention has not yet learned how to stay.


Discipline is Not Punishment, it does not deserve the Hostility

Acceptance is the key to improvement and therefore, it is high time we accept that attention is indeed not built from one single moment of heroism. It is built in small and almost unnoticeable moments where you choose to stay just a little bit longer than before. Studying for three hours continuously sounds great and rewarding but you don't need to do that. You need to be able to sit with one task for five minutes and yes, without running away. Five minutes of real presence is much better than fifty minutes of pretending. We will start slowly, one step at a time. Just like how Rome wasn’t built in a day, attention doesn’t grow within a day. It grows through repetition. 


Hence, the beginning of your Academic Domination Arc doesn’t start from the day you decide to transform, it starts when you practice staying. And when the mind wanders, do not panic and resort to instant shaming. Notice it, and gently guide it back. After all, attention is not about force, it is about familiarity. The more your mind becomes familiar with staying, the easier it becomes.


Attention Training but Make it Kind

Bullying your mind into attention is never the way. You have to be patient with it, guide it gently and with care. Threats from your parents might work on you when your freedom is at stake, but you cannot threaten your brain into obedience. If you try to force attention, the brain will only rebel harder. The goal here is companionship, not control. You have to learn to sit with your mind, not against it. You are not your enemy. 


The internet will give you a lot of tips on how to improve your attention span and stay focused - eat healthy, sleep for eight hours, walk barefoot on grass, delete social media. Relax, we are not here to become that person, except for the fact that eight hours of sleep can do wonders for your body and concentration. But the point here is that we are not trying to transform into a productivity monk who studies for twelve hours and survives on the aesthetic of suffering. We are simply learning how to stay. Not perfectly. Just honestly. 


And here are some simple, human and non-dramatic ways to start. And yes, again do not resort to instant shaming if you fail to achieve your goals at once. This is a no-judgement zone, we are going to keep trying:


  • The five minute sit: It sounds simple right? All you have to do is pick one task, set a timer for five minutes, not to finish the task but to stay with it. And if the mind wanders, bring it back, try again. Repetition is key. 

  • One screen, one book, one world: Have only one book or one tab open when you’re studying. Do not try to multitask. If you keep on switching tabs, you're not studying, you’re escaping. Attention grows in singularity, not in juggling.

  • The Gentle Return: The goal is not to ‘never get distracted’. That is unrealistic. The human mind is bound to get distracted. The real skill is noticing the distraction without shaming yourself, and returning back. 

  • The phone is not your oxygen: When the timer ends, do not immediately grab your phone like its oxygen. Let your mind breathe and understand that studying is not a prison break. 


Attention Span? Reinstalled. System? Upgraded.

Your academic domination arc has not failed, it has only begun. Improving your attention span is not an impossible task. It will take time, it will take patience, and most importantly, it will take consistency. What it does not require is a complete lifestyle makeover or the personality of a monk. 


Your mind is capable of learning how to remain, how to return and how to stay. Trust your mind and trust yourself. Begin slowly. Let the attention build in soft and steady layers. And if the mind wanders, you know what to do. And to every student reading this, especially those preparing for their boards, I am wishing you clarity, calm effort, and a steady mind. You are capable of much more than you think. Your arc is not over. It is beginning. 

 





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